A Mending Shift

a bird sings, not because if has an answer to give, but because it has a song to sing … this is my song

As a Former Pastor, I Ask You to Forgive Me…

| April 6, 2011

ShareThis is in the same spirit as my Wounded Image of God post , which prompted this post by Jeff . I have something that I said 15 years ago as a pastor that haunts me to this day. This haunting memory came flooding to the surface, complete with tears, by this comment I read [...]

My Tongue Hurts

| May 3, 2008

Share The more I surrender myself to God’s love and seek to uphold people’s dignity, the more I find myself biting my tongue. And when it gets too painful and I give into the urge not to bite it, letting it run free, I often regret it and people often get hurt—their dignity bruised, if [...]

Not “Going to” Church Anymore, But Gathering Instead

| April 13, 2008

Share For me, words and language are important. Which is why I don’t view anymore what I do on Sunday morning as “going to church”. To me, church is not a place, but a people. So instead of going to church (a place), we gather as the church (a people). Saturday night I’ll say to [...]

What THEY Hear—The Message Beyond Our Words 1

| February 12, 2008

Share The words we use are very important. But often, whether intended or not, there is another message being heard that lies beyond our words. This message is often subtle and remains unseen to its conveyor and subculture, in this case Christians and Christianity. But to those listening that reside outside of Christianity’s subculture, the [...]