A Mending Shift

a bird sings, not because if has an answer to give, but because it has a song to sing … this is my song

The Runaways and Their Loving Mom

four runaway children laying on a floor.

What is the Kingdom of God like, you ask?

A woman lived in rural central California. She was known for her kindness, generosity and love, but she was also fair and just. Her five children were normal kids, but the four youngest were known around town for their rebellious streaks. As a single mom, she did the best she could to establish both love and rules in the house, but four of her kids desired freedom over relationship. So one evening, the four youngest filled their backpacks and ran away.

The mom woke up and, finding four of her children’s beds empty, began to weep. She would not rest until her children returned home or she found them. Being a farm owner, she had plenty of hired hands to help in her search. She put the farm’s business on hold and sent her workers out to search for her lost darlings. She spent every last dime printing pamphlets, recording radio spots and inundating the TV with ads exclaiming her love for her children and her pleas for them to return home into her loving arms. All that she had, was and would be theirs.

Then one day, it happened. One of her runaways returned home. Seeing and hearing her message, his heart melted and he came back. She embraced him, welcoming him home. She turned to her eldest son (the one that never ran away) and asked if he would help find and bring back the others. He set out with a mission and a message. When he found two of the three, he told them of their mom’s love for them and how badly she missed them and her relentless desire for all of them to come home. He also reminded them of the Great Rule, but they refused to come back with him. He never did find the forth lost one.

Years passed and no sign of her kids. Regardless, a great rule had been violated. So she climbed into her pickup truck with a few hired hands and set out to bring her children home. On May 17, she found them.

All three were huddled up near a dumpster, clutching a worn blanket. They saw her truck approach and, too tired to run, they just sat with terror I their eyes. See, while away, they had been told countless lies by countless people that their mom was not a kind woman, that she did not love them and that she was mad-as-hell at them. Added to this was their incredible loneliness, shame and feelings of worthlessness. Living on the street—isolated from love—can do this to anyone, and it certainly did them. Seeing her children and hearing about their condition, the mother reassured them of her love. But despite her undying, never-ending motherly love for her children, she knew that the Great Rule had been violated and she must act accordingly.

They pulled up into the driveway and the truck came to a dusty halt. The hired hands helped the kids climb out of the back of the truck. As the mom walked to the house she looked back one last time at her kids. Motioning to the hired hands, she firmly declared, “Take them away. They violated the Great Rule and did not return to me on their own.”

“But mom….!?”

“Not another word,” she interrupted. “Whether you knew it or not, The Great Rule says that my children shall not run away and that if they do, they are to return on their own within three years. If they do not, I will find them and the Great Punishment must be inflicted. I even sent my oldest son for you, but you did not believe him.”

“Mom, we are sorry. We were scared, hurting and full of shame. We did things we are not proud of and that you would not approve of. Deep inside, when the nights were the quietest, we knew you loved us but we were afraid that you would have nothing to do with us after all we had done.”

With tears in her eyes she slowly replied, “I understand, I see you are truly sorry and I love you. But there is nothing I can do; I am powerless against the Great Rule. Three years have passed, you did not return and the Rule is the Rule.” With that, she turned and walked towards the house where her returning-son stood on the porch, watching.

The hired hands, still clutching the children by the arms, took them away to the barn…even the forth child who never heard the eldest son’s message. As directed by the Great Punishment, they entered the barn, tied the children to the posts and began beating them. Next came the kerosene. Then, in the midst of their screams and under the watchful eye of their loving mom, they and the barn were set ablaze.

The loving, kind, full-of-mercy, just and righteous mom, turning from the window overlooking the burning barn, looked at her oldest son and the child who returned to her, wiped the tear from her eye and smiled. She motioned once more to her hired hands and—with the other children still burning and screaming outside—the feast of feasts, the party of parties, began. The mom, her eldest son, her returning-on-his-own child, and even her hired hands lived, feasted, and partied…happily…ever…after.

The End.

Now go, and share this GOOD NEWS of the Kingdom. Praise be to God.

(And, if you’ll excuse me, I need to throw up and hug my kids; as a father of three kids, I feel sick and suddenly have a restless desire to love-on ‘em).

READ THE HOPEFUL ENDING HERE.


About The Author

Jeromy Johnson
I live in Folsom, CA, with my wife, Jennifer, and three kids. I am surrounded by and cared for deeply by some great friends. Their love for me is truly a moonlit reflection of Papa's love, and for that, I am deeply blessed and grateful.

Comments

  • Gina

    Wow…

  • http://jeromyj.com/mendingshift/ Jeromy Johnson

    A few other comments from the web:

    Reading that, kind of gave me chills, kind of made me sick, and really very clearly demonstrates the contradictory message of the traditional evangelical “Good News.” Yikes.

    It’s so painful that this is what I grew up believing, what I listened to over and over, what I invited others into. God forgive us…

    Wow! I have good news. I saw Jesus in the story of Joseph like never before. I wrote a quick article about it here: http://www.prlog.org/11278042-was-joseph-greater-than-jesus.html

  • http://www.flavoryellow.com Theresa

    yeah, I think the theology is a bit wrong here. I’ve formally studied reformed, pentecostal and anglican theology for 5+ years and never came across this line of thinking as being “Truth”.

  • http://jeromyj.com/mendingshift/ Jeromy Johnson

    As a bit of background, this was, in a nutshell, the Evangelical story I was handed (all be it they would believe that the “kids” were never part of God’s family and thus their treatment was justified/earned…I disagree on both accounts). The other thing is that one parable, story, or analogy can never include a complete treatment of theology and usually points to a single (or few) truth.

  • http://www.flavoryellow.com Theresa

    I understand your position, I really do!! I think in many different ways we are confronted with one lie or another on a daily basis (just look around you). It’s up to us to sort out what is real and to discover what truth is so we can own it for ourselves. Too many people listen to what is told them and just believe it w/out ever researching it. I’ve never been one to swallow “truths” that people share w/me which is why I studied theology. I would listen to what pastors would say and think, “that doesn’t line up w/the Bible”. Throughout my studies I’ve wrestled with many so called “truths” that people have shared from the pulpit. Funnily enough, during my theological studies (2 BA’s and post grad study) at 3 different universities, I’ve never encountered the fire and brimstone theology that you speak of. I have heard it in churches and have come to the conclusion that there are just some people w/a very narrow view of God. Many people are happy w/this narrow view as it allows them to judge others. Makes them feel safe and righteous or on track w/God by having a solid line. Thing is, I’m not so sure things are so black and white. We make God small when we don’t allow for amazing things to occur in people’s hearts in the blink of an eye between life and death. He is God after all. He knows us intimately. He sees our hearts and knows us better than we do. He can do anything. I believe that technically, all people are saved. Technically, none are really sinners as all have been forgiven by the work of Christ. Heaven is like an amazing party, all are invited. Everyone who wants to be there will be there. It is a small god who wouldn’t allow someone in who hadn’t “heard” of the invitation, or who didn’t quite “get it” while they were living the daily grind, hence my reference to God being able to do amazing things between life and death. I do however think that there will be those who genuinely turn down the invitation to the party. God won’t force anyone into heaven, but I do believe He grants everyone the opportunity to join the party in one way or another.

    Now Hell with fire is a whole other post entirely. Fire is a metaphor. Here’s something to get people thinking:
    Gehenna (Hell) is where the worm (maggot) does not die and the fire is not quenched (Mk 9:43-44). Gehenna refers to the valley of Himmon (or valley of slaughter), south of Jerusalem where idolatrous Jews had sacrificed their children to the god Molech (the god of fire). It was later turned into the city’s garbage dump, where everything from dead animals and criminals, to other kinds of refuse were thrown into a continuously burning fire. This putrid, corrupt, horrific place was the perfect metaphor for Hell. Hell can’t be all fire as it’s also described as a place of darkness (Mat 8:12). I suspect, like many others, that Hell is a state of separation from all that is God – only for those who have genuinely turned down the invitation to the party (see above). Will Hell last forever? No. Forever in this sense means a specific period of time. How long? Only God knows, and I trust in Him as a God of love and compassion to deal with each individual as He sees fit. I imagine though that even five minutes of total separation from God would seem like eternity when going through it.

    Just a thought though… I realise these are the stories you’ve heard but it’s a bit tit for tat. Rather than sharing from cynicism (which we have enough of in Xian circles) would it not be a good thing to share the story from the flip? I think it could be equally eye opening but positive rather than negative. Keep at it though, it’s good to see people thinking about what they believe. :)

    sorry… I did intend to only write a paragraph. :P

  • http://jeromyj.com/mendingshift/ Jeromy Johnson

    Hey Theresa, small world. I too studied theology and now we both find ourselves studying at AAU. Go figure.

    Regarding what you believe, we are both on the same page, it seems. Except though I believe that some may reject God’s love initially, I believe that indeed, God will draw all men to godself and ultimately reconcile all. How, that is not up to me, I just believe/hope that will ultimately be as God says it will. Almost like a child taking a trip to Disneyland with daddy, I don’t need to know all the travel details just that Daddy said we’ll one day arrive there.

    I also agree about hell, hence this post. Why the initial negative approach? Because much like contrast in design, it serves a purpose, and without it, the positive doesn’t stand out as much. Also, since most people don’t get the opportunity to study from the ivory towers (though there are some that teach a literal hell) and instead get their theology from the grassroots and local churches, there are a lot of people who have been handed this theology. I am excited to see that you studied for yourself and didn’t just take the churches/pastors word. Most do, however. There are even camps where thousands of kids come for the summer and hear clear messages on hell and Jesus’ salvation from it. Sometimes we need to see “our” theology in the light and see it for what it is. Trust me, I wish that this story didn’t exist, but it does in many minds and churches.

    And yes, the followup perspective is coming soon. Same characters, far different ending.

    Here are some other posts along these same lines.

    http://jeromyj.com/mendingshift//2009/01/07/the-war-is-over/
    http://jeromyj.com/mendingshift//2008/03/23/here-i-stand%e2%80%94on-gods-love-for-all-2/

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  • http://sacredbe.blogspot.com/ rain

    i am weeping….

  • http://jeromyj.com/mendingshift/ Jeromy Johnson

    In a good way, or bad way?

  • http://sacredbe.blogspot.com/ rain

    because when you put it that way…
    this narrative is like a loving rebuke. in the best possible way, because its truth-based, not shame-based. you carried the tale to the logical end. and in doing so have revealed something even better understood by parents, i think, which is that deep, abiding love is stronger than death, transcends death and sin and darkness. love covers a multitude of sins. dare we extend that even unto the sin of, say, unbelief?

    this is like holding a gentle mirror up to the light. hearing a tender, ‘really?’ in response to old beliefs. really, you’re going to believe that about Me? how could i ever believe such terrible things about the good and gentle shepherd?

    when we hear things fresh, in warm, red language, it brings it home. it’s emotional because on one hand, it’s a crumbling of entire lifetimes of thought, showing whether the work is made of steel or straw. on the other, it’s the bringing in of a better hope. it can be a little scary. not bad scary, just unknown. there are many things i don’t understand, scriptures i can’t reconcile. as i test all things and hold fast the good, it can be startling when some tests ~ ones i’ve built theology around ~ fail. this journey has accelerated over the last few months and it’s so joyous…and at the same time, much like birth and the newness of life, there is pain and uncertainty and shedding of the old.

    so that’s what i meant. prolly more than you wanted to know. :-)

  • http://jeromyj.com/mendingshift/ Jeromy Johnson

    No, thanks for the further insight. So it feels a little like being born again?

    Jennifer, my wife, shed new light onto this. After reading this and considering God, she said that she would never follow a human leader that did these kid of things, and if she did, it would simply be out of pure fear and self-preservation, not love. And yet we’ll follow a God who would do this? You mention how love covers a multitude of sins. It is interesting where the Bible says, “Behold the lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world!” to note the singularity of “sin” not “sins” … Jesus took away the sin of the world, the whole thing, in one fell swoop. “‘The sin’ is in the singular, indicating the complete removal of the ‘sin principle’, or sin itself with all of its consequences, not just the individual acts of sin.” Mufasa! Say it again! Here is a link to NT verses that point to God reconciling all things: http://jeromyj.com/mendingshift/wp-content/uploads/2008/03/reconcilation-scriptures.doc

    But its true what you say how it feels like the foundations are crumbling all around you. I felt the same way. Then when they were are crumbled and I stepped into the darkness of the unknown, you know what I found? I was still in God’s hands. Those foundations were simply MY foundations, the safe things I had known and believed. But anyhow, that a whole other conversation…

  • http://sacredbe.blogspot.com/ rain

    yes,like being born again.

    you wrote about stepping into the darkness of the unknown and i feel as though i look into a mirror again…i’ve written that, myself, often. i step into the darkness of the unknown because i trust the one who became known.

    regarding sin, singular:
    in the garden of eden, adam’s sin separated him and all of us from the LIFE of God. because of Jesus we are reconciled to LIFE. so i agree with what you say.

    Romans 5:9-11 (New King James Version)

    9 Much more then, having now been justified by His blood, we shall be saved from wrath through Him. 10 For if when we were enemies we were reconciled to God through the death of His Son, much more, having been reconciled, we shall be saved by His life. 11 And not only that, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received the reconciliation.

    it is done.
    it is finished.

    thanks for the verses….going to read them!

  • Tamara Olson

     I am sitting here reading and re-reading some of your blogs, especially the one about homosexuals…and I am in awe.  I’m in “awe” of God’s incredible, unfathomable love, I’m in “awe” that He has given someone the gift and ability to express His love through words…I am humbled, feeling choked-up, and grateful…  Please keep writing.  You are helping us to know Him more…thank you.  

  • http://www.jeromyj.com/mendingshift Jeromy

    Thank you Tami, I’ll keep singing my song as I have the words. You’re too kind…

  • Tamara

    I feel the same way as you–also studied theology.  My foundation is crumbling–wrecking beliefs that I knew, without a doubt, were true.  Just can’t quit pondering right now… listening and hungering for more Truth and yet, at the same time, afraid of what I might learn.

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